Morning Inspiration

I was having trouble sleeping this morning. This is nothing new in my post-knee-operation existence. The pain isn't always bad like it was right after the surgery 6 months ago (wow...exactly 6 months ago today!), but it comes and goes. This was the first time in recent memory, however, that the pain awakened me. I was probably in and out of good sleep from about 3am on and could more than faintly hear the various sounds that my Blackberry Storm makes whenever a text or email comes in.

Since at this hour, the only thing that might be coming in would be junk mail of some sort, I didn't see the need to reach for the phone and stop trying to pretend that I could still go back to sleep. When the email sound chimed at 445am, I finally did. It was some stupid message from Amazon.com that I immediately deleted without even opening. Since I already had the thing in my hand, I decided to scroll down and see what other junk had come in since the previous evening. Except for a forwarded message from an old friend, everything else was of the Spam variety. The forwarded message might have ordinarily been deleted on sight, but at this hour, I needed something to distract me from the pain.

I figured I'd look at the first little bit of it before hitting the delete button, but it kept me quite intrigued. By the time I was finished reading, I didn't know whether to shed a tear or get up and tackle the day. I was blown away. I chose the latter, and with great enthusiasm. I haven't jumped out of bed at that hour and with such vigor in a long time. Fifteen minutes later, I was in the gym working out. I have included the message below. I trust that you will enjoy it as much as I did.





Woman and a Fork

There was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things 'in order,' she contacted her Pastor and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes.

She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit she wanted to be buried in.

Everything was in order and the Pastor was preparing to leave when the young woman suddenly remembered something very important to her. 'There's one more thing,' she said excitedly.

'What's that?' came the Pastor's reply.

'This is very important,' the young woman continued. 'I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand.'

The Pastor stood looking at the young woman, not knowing quite what to say.

'That surprises you, doesn't it?' the young woman asked.

'Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request,' said the Pastor.

The young woman explained. 'My grandmother once told me this story, and from that time on I have always tried to pass along its message to those I love and those who are in need of encouragement. In all my years of attending socials and dinners, I always remember that when the dishes of the main course were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork.' It was my favorite part because I knew that something better was coming...like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie. Something wonderful, and with substance!'

So, I just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and I want them to wonder 'What's with the fork?' Then I want you to tell them: 'Keep your fork ..the best is yet to come.'

The Pastor's eyes welled up with tears of joy as he hugged the young woman good-bye. He knew this would be one of the last times he would see her before her death. But he also knew that the young woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did. She had a better grasp of what heaven would be like than many people twice her age, with twice as much experience and knowledge. She KNEW that something better was coming.


At the funeral people were walking by the young woman's casket and they saw the cloak she was wearing and the fork placed in her right hand. Over and over, the Pastor heard the question, 'What's with the fork?' And over and over he smiled.

During his message, the Pastor told the people of the conversation he had with the young woman shortly before she died. He also told them about the fork and about what it symbolized to her. He told th e people how he could not stop thinking about the fork and told them that they probably would not be able to stop thinking about it either.

He was right. So the next time you reach down for your fork let it remind you, ever so gently, that the best is yet to come.